We all have our pet peeves. Mine include being touched,
seeing the word “redneck” plastered on the windshield of a pickup, DVDs that
don’t have English subtitles, Confederate flags, and people taking Slash’s side
in the Guns n’ Roses split… I also have an irrational fear of grandfather
clocks, but that’s neither here nor there.
The worst one though? The one that makes me madder than a
hornet in a tornado? When someone tells me that they lost their faith in YHVH
because He “didn’t answer my prayer”. What a load of bunk that is. I mean,
really? So, because the Creator of all things had a better plan than what you
had in mind, and because He didn’t work like a little genie good will vending
machine taco stand Elohim, that MUST mean He doesn’t exist. What horrible
reasoning! When did Yah become Santa Claus? What right do we have to put Him in
a box and make Him bend to OUR will? Honestly, He doesn’t do that to us, and He
very well could, why do we think we have the right to do that to Him? People’s
arrogance never ceases to astound and stupefy me. I know I’m not a rocket
scientist but come on!
I honestly believe that a lot of the problem
stems from a misunderstanding of John 14:13-14:
13 In fact,
whatever you ask for in my name, I will do; so that the Father may be glorified
in the Son. 14 If you ask me for
something in my name, I will do it.
7 “And when you pray, don’t babble on and on like the
pagans, who think God will hear them better if they talk a lot. 8 Don’t be like them, because your Father knows what
you need before you ask him. 9 You,
therefore, pray like this:
‘Our Father in heaven!
May your Name be kept holy.
10 May your Kingdom come,
your will be done on earth as in heaven.
May your Name be kept holy.
10 May your Kingdom come,
your will be done on earth as in heaven.
11 Give us the
food we need today.
12 Forgive us what we have done wrong,
as we too have forgiven those who have wronged us.
13 And do not lead us into hard testing,
but keep us safe from the Evil One.
[a]For kingship, power and glory are yours forever.
12 Forgive us what we have done wrong,
as we too have forgiven those who have wronged us.
13 And do not lead us into hard testing,
but keep us safe from the Evil One.
[a]For kingship, power and glory are yours forever.
Amen.’
I love this passage. I mean, look at the words
our Messiah uses. From the get go He instructs us how we should come before the
Father. First in reverence and respect, then in praise and exultation, then we
come to Him with our requests. But notice something about the request segment?
Not once does Yeshua give an example of coming to Abba with things for your
personal glory or comfort. Every request our Meshiach makes of our Elohim is
for YHVH’s glory and the things that are needed to carry on His work.
Invariably, we all come to some point in our
life that we feel let down because YHVH isn’t granting our request that we feel
is of the utmost importance. I personally spent quite a long time angry at YHVH
because my wife and I tried so very hard to conceive. We lost two children
before we even knew they were there. I couldn’t understand why Yah would not
hear me. Why he wouldn’t heal my wife. Why He felt that we didn’t deserve to be
parents. It hurt, and it still does in some ways. I, too, got hung up on the “why?
Why won’t you answer my prayer?” nonsense. I was too blind to see that Yah had
a different plan than mine and that I had no right to question what His will
was. Imagine if Yah granted us everything we asked despite what’s best for our
personal interest? I mean, Yeshua Himself pleaded with YHVH at least three
times to avoid the crucifixion! Where would any of us be if Yah had been all
like, “Well, I know that would be uncomfortable for you so I’m just gonna call
the whole thing off and we can go out and get some tea. How’s that sound, son?” For that matter, let’s take a look at part of
Yeshua’s prayer in the garden.